Cutting the Endless Christmas List

Here is a Christmas parenting tip I wish I had when my children were little. In our Advent Bible study entitled "The Redemption of Scrooge" the author,  Matt Rawle, provided this advice to keep kid's Christmas lists under control. They used the Want, Need, Wear, Read, Share approach to their children's gift lists. 

British mother of three, Emma Tapping's Instagram
photo of her Christmas tree, which went viral last year.

The concept is simple - five gifts and that's it. One is something you desire/want, one is something you need, one is an item of clothing to wear and one is a book you want to read. Finally, there is an extra gift for you to share with someone else. No overwhelming mound of gifts, no excess - just enough to enjoy without overkill.

As the queen of excess, this method never occurred to me, but I like its simplicity. It allows the family to enjoy gifts while still maintaining the focus on the meaning of the holiday. Rawle said his children are still excited on Christmas morning and that it has not detracted, but enhanced their Christmas.

He points out that our abundance is someone else's deficiency. That unworn sweater in our closet could have been a source of warmth for someone who is cold and homeless. The extra pair of shoes might have helped a barefoot child or the unused bath set a source of hygiene for a young mother. 

This is why one gift is a present to share. It reminds children of the importance of not just receiving, but also of giving. 

So this season, when you think you should buy that "one more gift," pause for a moment. Is it a want, need, wear, read? If not, maybe it is time to share.

Fiesta Fun

IT'S FIESTA!

The last two weeks of April are Fiesta in San Antonio. It is a city-wide celebration that incorporates hundreds of events, food and fun. To celebrate, I decided to make my first fiesta wreath. Paper flowers are seen everywhere during fiesta, but I had never made them successfully. 

After some YouTube viewing and a little research I made the wreath above. I made two wreaths in one evening while I watched a movie. The time consuming part is fluffing out the paper flowers.

Pre-Cut Flowers Saves Time

Not handy? I found some pre-cut paper flowers at Dollar Tree. The yellow and pink flowers were from a garland that I cut apart. I used the string from the garland to tie the flowers onto the metal frame. I cut down some larger flowers (the pink and blue ones at the bottom of the wreath) that were also pre-cut. I made the green and purple flowers and the light blue flowers myself from tissue paper also purchased at Dollar Tree.  They don't have the tissue flowers on their Website, but I found them in my local store. You can purchase pre-made tissue flowers for about .24 each at Aliexpress.

Other Materials

The 18" wreath frame was from Michael's and the ribbon was another Dollar Tree purchase.  I used the curling ribbon and leftover garland string to tie the paper flowers that I made.

How To Make the Wreath

Wreath making is easy. I used 11 smaller flowers (about 6") on the sides and top of the wreath. Each flower is simply tied to the metal wreath. Three larger flowers  (8") were tied to the bottom. Long curling ribbon is tied underneath the flowers on the bottom of the wire wreath. 

This is a very simple project that look festive. When the flowers are crushed or faded, they are easily replaced since they are just tied onto the wreath and not glued. 

Happy Fiesta!

Chicken or Egg?

Both chicken and egg came simultaneously this Easter. I saw these online and thought I'd take a stab at creating chickens from our deviled eggs. 

They are a bit time consuming. First you cut the zigzag top off the egg and take a small chunk off the bottom to flatten the base, so the chicks can "sit" upright. Trying to get the yolk out without damaging the white is a skill I did not quite master.

From there you simply make deviled eggs. 

Deviled egg recipe:

Egg yolks (dozen)

1/2 c. Real Mayonnaise (1/2 cup)

White vinegar (about 1 tbs. to taste)

1/4 tsp salt

dash of pepper

Beat with a mixer until smooth. Put mixture in a plastic zipper bag and cut off one corner. Use bag to pipe the filling into the eggs.

Use whole peppercorns for the eyes and a small piece of carrot for the beaks. 

Tip: My Dash Go Egg Cooker made perfect eggs that were easy to peel. I highly recommend using an egg cooker to hard cook your Easter eggs.

Perfect Crock Pot Roast

Pot roast is a great make ahead meal in the crock pot. Everything you need for dinner is ready when you get home. Perfect for weeknight company. Here's the recipe.

4-5 lb. chuck roast (get the cheapest cut you can find)
1 bag mini carrots
4-5 peeled potatoes cut in thirds or quarters
1 pkg. onion soup mix
1 can cream of chicken or cream of mushroom soup

Line crock pot with a bag (for easy cleaning). Place a layer of carrots and top with a layer of potatoes. Put roast on top of veggies. Cover top of roast with soup and pour one can of water over the meat. Top with package of onion soup mix. Cook on low 6-8 hours or until you are home from work.

Best Travel Deals

I don't think my husband had any idea how much planning I put into our travels. That is until he spent a couple of hours looking over my shoulder as I relentlessly sought out the best deal for an upcoming trip he was taking.

Getting the best deal is a time investment. It is, however, an investment that pays big dividends.

Here's an example of a NYC trip that I took:

Expenditure                 Regular Price                    My Price

Lodging (7 nts.)

Fruit Cordials

Making my own fruit cordials is probably a natural outgrowth of my recent wine making efforts. After a little research I found the process was simple. Basically if you have fruit, vodka and sugar, you can make a cordial.

Berry Cordial

My first effort was a berry cordial. Here's what I did:

Wash and hull 1 qt. fresh strawberries, 1 qt. raspberries and 1 pt. of blackberries.

 Lightly mash fruit to release juices.

2 c. sugar

1.75 Liter bottle of vodka (being from Texas I prefer Tito's Vodka) or approx. 7 cups


Put Fruit in a sterilized jar add sugar and vodka and shake vigorously.

Place in a cool dark place and shake every week for at least 4 weeks (long makes for a smoother liqueur.

Strain fruit from liquid using a strainer and a coffee filter to get out all the fruit.

Serve over ice or mix with half and half or my favorite, vanilla, sugar-free creamer for a sweet, after dinner drink.

Some recipes I considered have you make a simple syrup. This one did not call for making the syrup and the sugar seemed to mix just fine.

Pear Cordial

My second cordial effort was with pears. We received a couple of Harry and David fruit boxes for Christmas and had a lot of pears. Our choices were to eat the pears or make cordials. As you can imagine, drinking the pears won out.

The pear recipe called for making simple syrup.

3 c. sugar

2 c. water

5-6 medium pears, washed, peeled, cored and sliced

zest of one lemon

3 c. vodka (again, Tito's was my choice)

1 Tbs. Fruit Fresh (or ascorbic acid)

Boil water and sugar until sugar is dissolved and solution is clear. Cool.

Combine pears with Fruit Fresh, simple syrup, lemon zest and vodka in a sterilized jar. Close jar with lid and shake. Place in a dark place and shake weekly for 4-6 weeks (longer for a smoother cordial)

Enjoy!

Glass Painting is a Great Relaxer

Art Therapy

This has recently become my "go to" art therapy. It is so relaxing to paint a simple design on glass. I started doing this following one of those "drinking and painting" girls' night out sessions where we learned the ins and outs of glass painting. The class was sponsored by Drinkable Arts and was great fun. Since then, glass painting has been for winding down on the weekends.

What You Need

Clean, dry glassware (Dollar Tree has a great, inexpensive selection)

Paint for glass - I use Plaid's Folk Art Enamels

Glass Writing Pens - Great for words and fine lines - I use Deco Art Glass Paint Markers

Alcohol Prep Pads (to erase mistakes and clean painting surface)

Paint brushes (don't go cheap on your brushes - buy quality ones)


How to Paint Glasses

I generally look for ideas online. If you search for glass painting ideas, you won't have any problem finding many options. Make sure your glass is clean and dry. I generally wipe the glass with some alcohol pads just to make sure there are no remaining fingerprints and oils.

Once you select an idea, start painting. Do not water down paint; use it straight from the bottle. Remember that the paint is only safe for the outside, so don't paint the interior of a drink ware.  If you make a mistake or change your mind about your design, alcohol will take the paint off cleanly. The alcohol prep pads do the trick nicely.

Also, painting the stem and foot of stemware is a nice option. Dots are easy to create with the stick end of your brush and look great for many designs. I find it hard to write words and lined designs with a brush, so that's where I use the paint pens.

Allow your glasses to dry a minimum of 8 hours, overnight seems to work well. Once they have dried, place the glasses in a cold oven on a baking sheet. Turn on the oven to 350-375 degrees (per instructions on paint) and allow to bake 30 minutes. Turn off oven and allow to cool. This will prevent cracking of your creations.

Once cool, your glassware is dishwasher safe on the top rack. I've washed one of my glasses almost 20 times in the dishwasher without any paint chipping.

Products We Love

I received a Christmas gift that I had no idea I needed and now cannot imagine life without it. The gift -- an egg cooker.

Yes, I had seen them around from time to time; however, it never occurred to me that I had a need for one. After all, what is so hard about sticking an egg in a pot or skillet.

The egg cooker I received is a Dash Go Rapid Egg Cooker. It can cook a boiled, poached or scrambled egg or even create a small omelet. I've done all four, and they work great. My favorite is the boiled egg. 

I like my eggs hard boiled, really hard boiled. The cooker takes about 10 minutes to achieve this. You put in the egg, large side up. There is a handy little pin on the water measuring cup that you prick the large end with to make a small hole. Measure the water in the cup to the desired doneness level you like (I fill it up to the top as the indicated line for hard boiled is not quite done enough for me). You put on the cover, unlatched (the latch is only for transporting the cooker), push the button and make your bacon and coffee/tea. The unit has a loud buzzer that signals the end of the cook cycle. I leave my eggs sit for 2-4 more minutes once it buzzes to let them cook a bit more.

Now here's the really great part. The eggs peel like a dream. I have not had one egg that didn't peel perfectly, even the eggs that were fresh from the hen. Fresh eggs are generally impossible to peel, but not if you prick the egg and use the steam cooker. 

Deviled eggs that are generally nightmarish to make because of peeling the eggs, are now a common dish at our house. I can't wait to use this at Easter. Maybe for once we can have deviled eggs that don't bring the devil out in me trying to peel them.

I haven't tried other brands, so the Dash Go is the only one I can speak to. If you've tried others, please feel free to share your comments on them.

Oh, and for the record, there have been no payments for any endorsements I make in this blog. They are my opinion only and an honest review. Thank you Terry for this great Christmas gift!

"Cooked Well" Tortilla Soup Recipe

I found this soup base at HEB and a recipe, which I tinkered with to come up with the following. It is a delicious tortilla soup that freezes well and is sure to please.

“Cooked well” Tortilla Soup

INGREDIENTS:

2 jars Cookwell and Company Tortilla Soup (available at HEB stores and online)

1-14.5 oz. can petite diced tomatoes

1 package super sweet frozen corn

1 tsp. cumin (to taste)

1.5 pounds diced cooked chicken

2 medium avocados, diced

Garnish:  Shredded Mexican Cheese, crumbled tortilla chips

INSTRUCTIONS:

Combine pre-made tortilla soup base, diced tomatoes, sweet corn and cumin in large stock pot. Heat to boiling. Add chicken and reduce heat to simmer. Cook on low at least 30 minutes. Just before serving add in diced avocados and cook an additional 3-5 minutes to heat through.

Can be cooked longer on low in a crockpot for a make ahead meal.

Serve with shredded Mexican cheese and crumbled tortilla chips.

Serves: 8

Cheese Making - Lessons Learned

I started making cheese this summer. Most people start with mozzarella or goat cheese. These types of cheese do not require aging and provide relatively instantaneous results. I, however, started with aged cheeses. In hindsight, learning on the easier, non-aged varieties might have been a better plan, but those cheeses are a cake walk after making the aged varieties.

Top 10 Cheese Making Tips

1. Get a kit. Having everything you need at hand makes the process easier. The kit I chose was fairly simple to follow and had a lot of recipes from which to choose.

2. Digital thermometers rock. I purchased a nice digital thermometer for cooking meats prior to my cheese making adventure. I am glad I had it. Much of cheese making requires monitoring temperatures, and the digital thermometer makes it easy.

3. A little color goes a long way. After making white cheese, I decided to go for a little yellow cheese. Liquid annatto is used to give cheese its yellow color. What looks light when in the milk stage gets much darker in the condensed curd stage.

4. Mold and cheese are close friends. Rubbing vinegar on a the cheese with a cheesecloth takes off the mold and also reduces mold after the cheese is waxed.

5. Buy a pot for cheese wax that is only used for that purpose. It is a pain trying to clean out the wax, so just get a pot and leave it for wax only.

6. Cheesecloth is reusable. If it is yellowed from the annatto, just put it in a little bleach, and it will be snow white and ready to reuse.

7. Bricks and hand weights will work. Hard cheeses have to be pressed at various weights. For square or rectangular molds, I use bricks. For round molds, hand weights work. I hope to get a cheese press some day, but in the interim, bricks and weights will do the job.

8. Cheese molds with followers work best. A follower is an insert that presses the cheese into the mold. It helps keep the top smooth once weight is applied and provides a surface to balance weights. Without the follower, it is really hard to press cheese without a press.

9. Use more rennet than it says. I wind up using double the rennet (which makes the curds) that what the recipe requires. I don't know who writes these recipes, but none of them seem to have enough rennet listed.

And the most important lesson I've learned...

10. DOGS EAT CHEESE. My dogs have stolen several blocks of cheese that have been on the counter (allegedly out of reach) that were drying. It has been frustrating going to all the work to make cheese only to have it become a dog snack. Large quantities of cheese seem to have no ill effect on the dogs, but they have made them cheese enemy #1. This stuff is irresistible, so keep it locked high out of the way of marauding pets.



(FYI, I am not being paid to promote any products on this blog. All opinions are mine and no promotional fees have been paid for endorsements on this site.)

Black Bean Corn Salsa

Black Bean Corn Salsa

This has become a recent favorite obtained (multiple times) from my friend Terry Parish. It is easy to make and a great appetizer or snack. Serve it with "Scoop" style tortilla chips so you can enjoy every morsel.

SALSA

2 cans Ranch Style black beans, drained

1 bag frozen corn (16 oz.)

¼ c. chopped red onion

½ c. green onion chopped

4-5 Roma Tomatoes

¼ c. chopped cilantro

DRESSING

½ c. olive oil

¼ c. red wine vinegar

½ T. sugar

1-2 chipotle peppers chopped

1 Tbs. adobo sauce (from chipotle peppers)

DIRECTIONS

Mix salsa, mix dressing. The heat of the salsa can be controlled by removing some or all the seeds from the peppers. Combine salsa and dressing.

Products We Love

I haven't written a product review in a while, but that doesn't mean that I haven't run into some great products. Here are some of my latest "loves."

For the record, I do not receive any compensation or sponsorship for these reviews. They are solely my unpaid experience and personal opinion of products that I use.

Scotch Brite Goes "Extreme"

I just tried the Scotch-Brite Extreme Scrub Scour Pad, and I am a new convert. I had something on my cooktop that we could not get off with any product. This pad took it right off. Word of warning, it will scratch surfaces. That said, if you have baked on grease on pots and pans, this is the magic wand to get them shiny. It is the best scouring pad I've ever encountered, and from now on, it will be the only one for our house.

Protein Chips Worth Enjoying

I eat a high protein, low carb diet. I've tried many protein chips in an attempt to stave off the need to "crunch," and because, honestly, I miss potato chips. For many brands, the cardboard shipping box is preferable to the chips. They taste wooden and artificial. I finally found one that not only has flavor, it has a delightful crunch, only 120 calories, 8 gm of carbs and a satisfying 15 gm of protein! ProtiDiet White Cheddar Protein Crisps deliver flavor and nutrition without breaking the calorie bank. I highly recommend them for all you chip lovers who are looking for a healthier snack.

Goodbye Bridal Shower Games - Hello Crafts

One of my least favorite things is bridal shower games. Word searches, dressing the bride-to-be in tissue paper, clothespin game for crossing your legs... I've played all of them--begrudgingly. So when tasked to plan a shower for a friend's daughter, the thought of more shower games made me want to back out of the event. 

Then an alternative came to mind -- why not do crafts instead? The future bride was an artistic type and most of the guests liked crafting. So out went shower games and in came the crafters.

To do crafts at a shower you need three things:

1. An instructor in the chosen craft

2. Supplies

3. A craft that can be completed in a short amount of time

We chose candle and soap making and cupcake decorating. Guests moved from station to station to create three different crafts.

Decorating the cupcakes was a great idea because it eliminated the need for a decorated cake and allowed everyone to participate in the process. We displayed cupcake creations on a stand. Baked cupcakes, frosting, fondant and decorations were provided. Then at the end of the event, everyone either ate or took home their creations.

Candle making was done by using beeswax sheets to roll candles. Participants chose their color and size and rolled custom candles of their own choosing. It was less messy than pouring candles, plus the microwave was busy melting soap for the third craft.

Soap making involved clear glycerin soap decorated with plastic letters (to spell words like "soap" or "wash") or a variety of plastic decoration in the bride's fall colors (leaves, pumpkins, etc.). Melted soap was poured into decorated molds and cooled while guests made other crafts and watched the gift opening.

The event was a hit with guests and the bride taking home handmade items as their party favors. Better yet was the absence of lame party games! 

Breakfast Roll-Ups - Great for Travel Kitchens and Camping

You are travelling and have a small kitchenette, camp stove or RV kitchen. This means limited cooking ingredients and equipment. So how can you make a great breakfast-to-go that doesn't involve a Pop Tart or cereal?

My solution was a breakfast roll-up. It was fast and delicious, plus I could make it in my min-kitchen. Here's the recipe:

2 slices of bread, crusts removed, rolled flat with a glass

1 Oscar Mayer P3 Protein Pack (I used smoked ham) Use only meat and cheese.

1 egg beaten

Butter or cooking spray

Cook scrambled egg in frying pan with cooking spray or butter. Press short edges of bread slices together to form rectangle and butter one side. Place egg, cheese and ham (from P3) on the unbuttered side of the bread and roll (jelly roll style). Place roll (seam side down) in heated skillet and brown bread rotating to brown all sides. Snack on nuts from P3 as you prepare your breakfast.

Enjoy!

Best Cooking Tip - Ever

I wish I had know this tip years ago. It solves a long-term cooking problem I've had that becomes even worse each Easter. The problem is how to peel an egg without tearing it to shreds? The answer? Stay tuned.

You see, I've tried numerous "tricks." Older eggs peel better than very fresh eggs, so I would buy eggs a couple of weeks in advance of when I would need them to ensure some "aging." But even this doesn't guarantee a smooth peel.

Salting the cooking water is another recommendation. But I never had any luck with that tip.

Running the eggs under water while you peel them brings moderate success if you can break the thin membrane under the shell and get water under it. Still, not a foolproof method.

So what is the answer? A pinch of baking soda in the cooking water.

Adding just a pinch of baking soda to the water as you cook the eggs makes the boiled eggs peel easily. I and others I know have tried this several times now and it works like a charm. No more ragged eggs. They peel smoothly and perfectly.

Oh, if I had only known sooner...

Don't Cry Over Broken Cookies

Do you dread taking cookies off the cookie sheet because you know you will fight to keep them from breaking? There is a simple solution to this problem -- Patience.

To make taking cookies off the cookie sheet trouble-free, just wait 2 minutes after removing them from the oven before taking them off the cookie sheet. This allows the cookies to "set" sufficiently to be removed in one piece. I set a timer for two minutes, so I don't forgt them. The two minute rule is good because if you leave the cookies on the sheet too long, they will stick and you will have trouble getting them off the baking sheet.

Other cookie tips:

1. Use an "air-bake" pan. You will have to increase the
cooking time about 2 minutes, but you will never have burned cookie bottoms trying to get the tops browned.

2. Use a cookie scoop for even, round cookies.

3. Crisper cookies - use butter for shortening. Softer cookies use Crisco or a mix of butter and shortening. Increase flour for softer cookies.

Better Bruschetta

I have been on a bruschetta kick for the last few months. After sampling some at a couple of restaurants, I've come up with a favorite recipe that combines my favorites.

Ricotta Mix:

3/4 c. Ricotta
2 large fresh basil leaves finely chopped
1/2 lemon zested
2 Tbs. heavy whipping cream

Whip all ingredients together with a hand mixer until smooth.
A Microplane Zester makes easy work of the lemon.

Tomato Mix:

1/2 pkg. Cherub cherry tomatoes (finely diced)
3 large fresh basil leaves finely sliced
2 cloves garlic finely sliced
2 Tbs. extra virgin olive oil
Salt and pepper to taste

Combine tomatoes with basil, garlic and olive oil. It can be used immediately, but it is better to allow to marinate 30 or more minutes to get a fuller flavor. I use a garlic slicer to speed slicing the garlic.

Bread and Garnish
Sliced baguette brushed with olive oil
Thinly sliced Parmesan Cheese

Brush bread with olive oil and toast bread either in oven or toaster oven. Spread with ricotta mix and top with tomato mixture. Garnish with Parmesan Cheese Serve immediately.

Knitting - 100 Needles at a Time

We recently purchased a knitting machine. It is a used Bond knitting machine, which is an entry-level model. I like to crochet, and recently had a friend teach me the basics of knitting. I like how knitting looks, but am slow and really never mastered the art.

Then along came the knitting machine. The machine has 100 "needles.". Actually, they are individual "latch hooks" that pull the thread through in a pattern. You can easily knit a large project in an evening or two rather than spending several weeks or months on it. This is the perfect type of knitting for a type-A individual.

There is a bit of a learning curve getting started with a knitting machine. We watched YouTube videos to get the basics. Some machines come with training videos. It took a couple of evenings to get the hang of it.
Once you master the basics, there are many patterns available, and you can make anything from an afghan, to a sweater, hat, scarf, or placement -- anything you could make with a regular pair of knitting needles only much faster.

Although I only have one scarf under my belt, I have learned a couple of tips so far:

1. Buy a smooth, light to medium weight yarn. It is hard to work with thin or thick yarn. The light and mid-weight ones glide through the machine more easily.

2. It is easier to rip out a mistake than to try to fix it. The rows unravel easily leaving the loops still on the machine. If you drop one or two stitches (which will happen), then sure, go ahead and fix them by pulling the yarn through the loops that were missed. However, if you have more than a couple of stitches to fix, it is probably better to rip it out and start over since knitting a row or two does not take much time.

3. Weight is your friend. Their is a weight bar that you use to start the project, but should your project be a larger or longer one (like my scarf) you need to keep tension on the yarn loops so they stay properly on the machine. You can purchase knitting machine weights to attach to your projects, which is an important addition to your machine.

I still have a lot to learn about machine knitting. It is an exercise in patience until you get the hang of it. Having a more expensive machine would probably solve some of the issues, but these can run into the thousands of dollars. I will stick with my $90 eBay model and muddle along.

I'll keep you posted as I complete other projects and learn more about machine knitting. These are some photos of my machine and an example of a knitting machine weight.

Pecans - From Tree to Tummy

My friend's pecan trees worked overtime this year. She had so many pecans, that she shared them with me, as long as I picked them up. This was an easy task as she has a pecan roller. This little gadget works great. Rolling it on the ground takes little effort, and the pecans pop right into the cage. They remain there until you dump them out. It is a real back saver.

Once collected, we wash and crack them. This is very labor-intensive. I prefer to crack them by hand. My friend has a fancier table mounted hand cracker. I find I have more control with the hand cracker. The key to getting whole pecans or halves seems to be in removing the shell in the center of the nut first, thus preventing breaking the nut in half. This prevents having to pick little bits of nut meats out of the shells. It is easy to shell the pecans while watching TV, so I just keep some handy as I view my favorite shows.

While raw pecans are tasty, nothing compares to the roasted ones. to roast the pecans:

Preheat oven to 350 degrees.

Place nuts in a shallow pan. Spray with cooking spray and shake to coat the nuts.

Bake nuts for exactly 10 min. (longer and you may scorch them, shorter and they aren't fully roasted.)

Remove from oven and immediately salt (I use popcorn salt as it is finer and sticks better).  Enjoy!

 

Enjoy a Special Family Valentine's Day

Going to a restaurant on Valentine's Day is the last thing I want to do. Long lines, crowded tables and often rushed, poorly prepared food is not what I consider a celebration.

Celebrating at home with your family is much more fun. We've done it for years and my children look forward to our home party.

We start with special food. I generally create a favorite meal. Heart-shaped jello, valentine's cookies, decorated cupcakes, cake pops, etc. have made the celebration. I sometimes make meatloaf in a heart-shaped pan and cover it with ketchup.

Next is the party. Everyone makes a valentine "mailbox." Sometimes these have been from kits, other times they  have been empty cereal boxes or large envelopes. Each family member needs one (you can make one for less crafty or grumpy family members). Then during the day each family member places Valentines for each person and small gifts in their box. After dinner we open our cards. It becomes a nice time to show how much we love each other.

Another feature of our party is a Valentine hunt. Red construction paper hearts, pre-purchased foam or cardboard hearts or heart-shaped doilies work nicely. Also some Valentine candy sweetens the hunt. A few "prize" hearts contain special treats (like a free trip for ice cream, a gift card, staying up 1 hour past bedtime
--whatever is appropriate for the age children you have). Much like an Easter egg hunt, the children scour the house for well-hidden hearts. Sometimes they are too well-hidden and we find them months later.

We often fill a jar with M&Ms or other candies and have a guessing contest. The one who guesses closest to the actual number wins the jar of candy (although they generally share). We count after everyone has guessed, so the counting is part of the process.

Finish the evening with a romantic movie or a family board game. Then when the kids go to bed, Mom and Dad can enjoy a glass of wine and relax together.